Andika amateka yawe: Agaciro kawe si inkuru ivugwa n’abandi
Ntukemere ko amagambo mabi abandi bavuga agutesha agaciro, kuko amagambo ni nk’umuyaga aza akagenda, ariko wowe ugomba kuguma uhagaze nk’urutare. Abantu bashobora kuvuga ibyo bashaka bitewe n’uko babona ibintu, amarangamutima yabo, cyangwa n’ibyo banyuzemo, ariko ibyo ntibigomba kugena uwo uri we.
Agaciro kawe si amagambo bavuga ku isura yawe, ku bushobozi bwawe cyangwa ku makosa wigeze gukora. Ahubwo kagaragarira mu bikorwa byawe bya buri munsi uko witwara, uko uharanira intego zawe, uko wubaha abandi n’uko uharanira kuba umuntu mwiza kurushaho. Ibyo ukora ni byo byubaka izina ryawe, si ibyo abandi bavuga.
Ntukemere ko amagambo mabi abantu bakuvugaho agutesha agaciro, agaciro kawe kagaragarira mu byo ukora, si mu byo bavuga.
Amagambo ashobora kugucira intege, ariko ibikorwa byawe ni byo bifite imbaraga zo kukwubaka.
Ibyo abandi bavuga ni urusaku, ariko ibikorwa byawe ni byo biba igisubizo nyacyo.
Ntugapfukame imbere y’amagambo mabi akuvugwaho, hagarara ushikamye werekane agaciro kawe mu bikorwa.
Agaciro kawe si inkuru ivugwa n’abandi, ni amateka wandika ukoresheje ibikorwa byawe.
Ntukemere ko amagambo mabi agusubiza inyuma, ahubwo abe intangiriro yo gukora cyane kurushaho.
Icyizere cyawe kigomba kuruta kure amagambo yose akuvugwaho.
Ujye umenya ko amaherezo, amagambo ashira, ariko ibikorwa byawe bikomeza kubaho.
Ntukemere ko amagambo mabi abantu bavuga agutesha agaciro, kuko amagambo yabo agaragaza ibyo batekereza, si uwo uri we. Agaciro kawe ntikagenwa n’ibyo bavuga, ahubwo kagaragarira mu bikorwa byawe, mu myitwarire yawe no mu rugendo rwawe rwo kwiyubaka. Jya wiyizera, ukomeze gukora ibyiza, kuko amaherezo ibikorwa byawe ari byo bizatsinda amagambo yabo.
Ibyo abandi bavuga bishobora guhinduka, ariko ibikorwa byawe byo bizahora biguhagarariye. Komeza wizere uwo uri we, ukore ibyiza, kuko ari byo bizakomeza kukwerekana nk’umuntu ufite agaciro nyakuri.
Philemon Burgin
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